It’s the anniversary – the first
Today is the first anniversary of the death of a friend of mine (in Dallas). It reminded me; when you know of an anniversary like this, please realize that it’s important – very important – to the family. Please don’t let the day pass without saying something to the family – just let them know that you remember. If you’re worried that you don’t know what to say, just remember… less is more. Be sure to use the person’s name – the family will be glad to hear it – I bet it’ll even make ‘em smile (at least on the inside:)
January 31st, 2010 at 2:40 pm
You are right. It is important for others to remember your loved one. Even though they are gone, it makes it feel like they are not forgotten. I just finished reading “Tuesdays with Morrie” and he made a comment in the book, “Death ends a life – not a relationship.” Your loved one may be gone but they are still a big part of your life and remembering every anniversary is part of that and having others remember does help.